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Friday, March 7, 2008
/ Stop crying Hi everyone! I know this may sound so cliche or overrated or something, but take my advice and never be sad. I used to fake being emo in the past, but even I was I know I'll never be again in my life. Life is too short to lose even a second of happiness, and when one day (no ifs, it's gonna happen) someone close dies don't cry at his/her funeral, smile because you know you made him/her happy on his/her last days on Earth. Patrick Swayze (Dirty Dancing) has been diagnosed with cancer and now has an expected lifespan of 3-6months. I don't think anyone wants to know when they're gonna die, but just think... what would you do if tomorrow things changed for the worst? No-one needs to die in that situation, but things that you live on could be lost due to horrible changes. Alot of people see me as negative or pessimistic, and I agree and disagree to those opinions. I like to see things on the bad side of life so I can be prepared for when it happens, but I speak from experience when I say it's always worse when it actually does happen. If something bad hasn't happened yet, don't think about it. When troubles come your way, deal with it. Don't think ahead. Some people may think it "uncool" to discuss grandparents or something, but I think it's fine to share your feelings when you most need help. I just left to place cold towels on my grandmother's head - she's having a fever. I have to change towels every half an hour so that her fever will go down, but I don't treat as a burden. Even though I see her shivering under me 'cos her body is so cold I can't take the ice-cold towel away from her head or her fever won't go down. All I can say is that taking care of someone you love is much better than lavishing that person with all you can give him/her. If anyone reading this is unhealthy right now, there's nothing I can say except that the things you've experienced in your life, whether good or bad, is over. If unpleasant things are happening to you right now, focus on the good things and thank whoever it is you want to thank that you are able to experience such pleasantries, no matter how small they may seem. Some say everyone has a turning point in their life. I think this is mine. Thank you guys for being my friends, and I hope the day I leave I can still count on you guys to be there smiling down at me. But for now, be happy 'cos you're never gonna get the time you already spent back. Kim 5:37 PM ! |